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Jen
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Although the situation is not the same, my heart goes out to you and your family for the tragic loss. My mother was the victim of a hit and run accident 2 years ago, and the driver left her in the middle of a dark road to die with nothing but the tire marks across her back and legs. Thankfully, she has lived, but the angry feelings will never go away. Your site has put me at ease, and I know there are positive outlets for my feelings. Thank you for sharing your story.
9 March 2005 - Atlanta
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Rae
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I am sitting here in tears after reading "the other side" I am so very sorry that on top of dealing with your loss that you must also deal with these people who cannot grasp the idea that Jay is gone forever. I cannot get over the idea that they believe they are innocent and not at fault. Our responsibity as human beings do not end when we climb behind the wheel and shut our door. A car is a 2 ton murder weapon if you do not control it in a responsible manner.
31 January 2005 - Nashville TN
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C
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I was missing my old friend today. I have known Kim for many years....met Jay through her. I want everyone who reads this to know just how many live's are affected when there is a loss of a life.I have seen this first hand. I have had only "glimpses" of my old friend since the day Jay was killed. My heart broke as I saw the image of my old friend riding in the back of the limo at the funeral. Intense sadness...palpable.... in Kim...in Brenda (Jay's mom), his father and his wife and children. I still cry as the image reappears with just a side thought as it's prompt. I have watched Kimmie in the 20 months since the death go so far inward that I only see glimpses of the Kimmie I once knew. I havent seen her smile as she did before....or laugh.....or live. I have seen her "exisit"....feeling guilty when life offers her an opportunity to "feel" the joy....feeling guilty that Jay isnt here to feel it as well. I have seen her immerse herself in finding justice for Jay...and as in his life she continues in his death to be his biggest advocate. He is very proud of her for her dedication to the cause as I am also certain that he wants her to "feel"... to experience the joy that she is here to experience.The accident didnt just take Jay's life....it goes far beyond that. The ripple affect of such a loss extends so much farther than anyone can imagine. Kimmie and her family will forever feel the sting....will forever find it difficult to take a deep breath or to fully appreciate Thanksgiving or Christmas as they did when Jay was there to celebrate with them. A big part of them died on that Myrtle Beach intersection as well.
I have kept up with Kim through this website as I know that this is the only place that she is able to "feel". I know that through his site that she can touch the essence of Jay in a way that she cannot access in any other forum.
I miss my old friend. I miss her deeply. I pray for her to find the peace within herself...the comfort...the desire to live again.
So...for anyone wondering if they should get behind the wheel after that drink or drug....dont. Please....remember the living....know how in just a split second of poor judgement you can create a ripple affect that expands over many generations and soaks many pillows with tears. I miss you Kim.
17 January 2005 - C's Ponderosa...NC
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brenda branchaud
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my heart goes out to your family. This is a great web site.
7 January 2005 - snow camp, nc
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Cindy Hodges
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Hi Brenda and Kim... I've not talked to you in some time now... does not mean I have not thought of you. I saw Dale Dutcher a few weeks ago on a run... he has not talked to you either lately, I reckon. Today is January 6, and I know Urban's hearing was scheduled for yesterday... what happened?
Brenda... here in NC we are going back this year to try to put more "teeth" into the ROW violations law that we got passed last year. It was a significant victory, but we "aint done yet". Also, I am going on Monday to Columbia, SC. On Tuesday, I will be joining my brothers and sisters of ABATE of SC as their General Assembly opens. Also going as a show of support and to learn a thing or two is a sister from Tennessee... Tennessee is going to try to introduce a ROW bill this year also.
We go to support SC... as they support all of us...
No one forgets Jay... or any of our other brothers and sisters we lose to these folk who just do not think as they pilot massive pounds of steel about. No one forgets Sandra Lee either... the list of names is countless...
Big hugs to you and yours... I do think of you often.
6 January 2005 - Wendell, NC
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